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Archives for June, 2009

Is Flirting a Habit?

I opened my Facebook account this evening and this phrase from a friend blurt out on her activity feed…

“ Flirting is a habit; for those who r single, it’s their way of saying im free….but for those who r committed, it’s their way of saying im bored”…i need a break!!!! Common be true to yourself…. “

Hahaha… it does feel good at times! lol! :)

I had my answer! Lol! :)

Bout you guys? Care to share? :)

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A Blogger's Life

I’ve been blogging for almost 2 years now and within those 2 years I’ve learned so much from it. It felt like I’ve been blogging for more than 5 years with all the information I’ve gathered from the web, from other blogs and especially from my online friends.

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A few months after my initial start-up, I tried searching for useful online tools for a blogger to understand the ins and outs of the blogging world. True enough this article served its purpose and has kept me going till this day and hopefully for more years to come. :)

Before blogging on my mind was just a boring act of self expression. But when I tried it and gave my full interest on it, I’ve realized that it was more than that. I’ve grasp its importance to my daily life and to myself as a human being.

For the record, the greatest thing I’ve learned from blogging alone is having a life beyond what I had before with the help of the internet (which I felt before so impossible) and knowing great people online which in the long run became my good friends.  

With that, I want to greet all the bloggers, readers and visitors a Good Day or Evening! :)

Enjoy blogging! :)

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Jelousy Kills

Feel so bad today…

So bad because a previous chapter has been opened again and further worsen the situation that  ( I thought )was already settled.

 The root of the problem – JELOUSY! Urgh!  (And its not coming from me)

I’ve stopped working this morning because I really can’t focus. I tried browsing the web hoping to fine some interesting sites to occupy my mind and I didn’t fail. Here’s an article I want to share on how to handle jealousy. (Hoping that he reads this one.)

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~   Understand the emotions. Jealousy is a combination of fear and anger: fear of losing something and anger that someone is “moving in on” something that you feel belongs only to you.

~   Allow yourself to actually ‘feel’ emotions in a healthy way. When you start feeling jealous, ask yourself: Is it more fear-based or more anger-based? Recognize which part of your body is being affected. If you feel a dropping or clutching sensation in your stomach, it’s probably fear. If you feel a burning, tight sensation in your shoulders and jaw, then you’re likely feeling anger. You might also feel a combination of those sensations.

~    Communicate your feelings. Sharing your true feelings with someone without blaming them can create a deep sense of connection between the two of you and open up a dialogue about the path of your relationship. Use “I” instead of “you.” Instead of saying, “You shouldn’t have done that,” say, “I felt terrible when that happened.”

~   Identify what your jealousy is teaching you. Jealousy can alert you to what you want and what is important to you. If you’re jealous of someone talking to a friend of yours, personal relationships may be important to you. If you’re jealous about money, you may have an underlying need for security or freedom. Ask yourself, “Why am I jealous over this? What is making me jealous? What am I trying to keep? Why do I feel threatened?” When you begin to understand what makes you jealous, you can begin to take positive steps to maintain those things, without the cloud of negative emotion that accompanies jealousy.

~   Change any false beliefs that might cause jealousy. There are often false beliefs that underlie jealousy and fuel emotion. If you examine the belief, you can often eliminate the jealousy. Some common underlying beliefs are “Everyone is out to get my money” or “If this person leaves me, I won’t have any friends.” Beliefs are changeable. If you change your belief, you change the way you feel. Choose to tell yourself a belief that is nurturing and supportive, and you’ll feel better. When you begin taking steps to creating a happy and fulfilling life for yourself, you will find the anger, the jealousy, and the fear will disappear. Don’t listen to people who make you jealous.

God I just hope this issue ends fast! :( 

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Great Bundles

Have you heard about Verizon bundles? Well, if not, you better read this post a little further.

Verizon is probably most well known for their wireless phone service as well as having the most reliable wireless network in the nation. What’s less commonly known is that Verizon also offers customers the cutting edge Verizon deals that includes in home phone service (both local and long distance), high speed internet service (both DSL and fiber optic), and television service (satellite through DIRECTV and fiber optic through Verizon FiOS). As you can see, no matter your telecommunication needs, Verizon has you covered.

Yeah, Verizon offers all of this at a very comfortable price! Like with their phone services you can enjoy life by having unlimited local and long distance calls! And did you know that their high-speed internet start at $19.99 a month! Plus they have over 250 channels for their satellite television @ $23! Wow! Imagine that! So what are you waiting for?  Browse thru their site now and enjoy their services. J And oh don’t ever forget to browse on thru their service bundles!

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Something Juicy

Thinking about this..

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Should I get this juicy thing! Urgh!

BI ka tlga Faye! Sinisi ba? Hahaha! Kidding sis! :)

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